The Chronicle and the Examiner
In this world, months roll
backward; deathless.
Calamity knows no Jane
or Jim or Jack. I am del-
irious in this vivid delusion.
Food and coins and bills of
paper have no purpose here,
between this ear and this ear.
We step out of the massive
crystalline doors of our
complexes every day
and night and, once
outside, we instantly
evaporate and float
over woodland hills
until we reach, say,
the beautiful bay,
and its clean blue
waters, over which
we float all the way
to the infinite ocean.
And once the vast
Pacific lies be-
low, we drift
downward and
we sink into the
thick slosh of it
and become one
with all of the
earth's flora and
fauna, which is
indeed a new-
found humanity.
We think, do and
become all of these
things when we look
at the separation of
the classes, and at
all of its related
separations.
over two decades in the making. a timeshifting autobiographical poetry collage w/photography. a diaristic, nearly "daily writing" (ad)venture. new pieces are posted most days.. **new and in progress** -- recordings of each poem are being added. these are read by the author & posted to each poem's page. --Del Ray Cross (contact delraycross at gmail)
Wednesday, July 31, 2019
Tuesday, July 30, 2019
mmdccclxxxix
“Performing” One’s Own Work
Haven’t we all felt the disappointment
of watching the movie version of a novel you
absolutely adored? Perhaps until you saw the
film? Or maybe you adored the novel even
more afterward? I can tell you that the anti-
dote—or perhaps the reverse effect—is read-
ing a written adaptation of a movie that
was never anything written in the first
place (besides a screenplay, I assume).
Let’s take Tron, for example. Or, better
yet, let’s actually forget I mentioned that.
Is this why I dislike poetry readings so
often? Granted, they are most often,
at least the rare events I actually at-
tend these days, social events. And,
let’s just face it, poets are the
most socially awkward groups that I
have encountered on this planet. Math
squadrons, perhaps? Chemistry nerds?
I suppose there are a lot of anti-social
folks out there trying their best, I should
not let myself get to carried away here.
But let’s just say that you happen to be one
of us: a member of the poetry team. Or that
extra-rare lover of a non-poet who regularly
hangs out with our team. And, let’s say you
have a favorite poem by—let’s make this perfectly
easy to grasp—a personal favorite living poet. And
you get all ready one evening or weekend after-
noon to attend the reading of this hero of yours,
and right off the bat the hero poet begins to read
your absolutely favorite piece (by any living author)
in the most ho-hum, hum-drum manner. Or per-
haps even worse, reads it in that trite way many
poets read their own poems when standing in
front of the few of us who get ourselves togeth-
er just to attend such things. It might be a game-
changer, am I right? My most...modern... example,
or at least one that I am comfortable enough to re-
lay, is contrasting a performance or a studio re-
lease by Kanye West to the daily ding-bat non-
sense that erupts from the same mouth from
which that musical/rap sublimity apparently
emits. It leaves me confounded; dumbfounded;
worrying about his sanity and if whoever raised
him is actually bearing witness to this (if so, the
poor dear!)|With him, I can usually ignore the non-
stop barrage of crap given the fact that I can listen
to the albums in my own home. But this is a con-
undrum I ponder quite often (too often, I am
sure most would say). Or, sometimes—and
this too, I know, seems quite debatable—but
what about the similar phenomenon that can
occur in the same general neighborhood as
heroes who have penned some of the greatest
novels or poetry or emitted some of the best
rap or vocal bravura or performed some of
the greatest on-screen or off-screen perfor-
mances to date. Be it my opinion or yours
in such cases, surely it gives one pause.
But mostly it makes me want to jump out
of my seat and drag the reader off the stage
(or at least away from any podium or micro-
phone), pick up that which, now in mass-
produced print, was once penned by this
dodo, and read the damned thing myself.
The way it was actually meant to be read,
of course.
Haven’t we all felt the disappointment
of watching the movie version of a novel you
absolutely adored? Perhaps until you saw the
film? Or maybe you adored the novel even
more afterward? I can tell you that the anti-
dote—or perhaps the reverse effect—is read-
ing a written adaptation of a movie that
was never anything written in the first
place (besides a screenplay, I assume).
Let’s take Tron, for example. Or, better
yet, let’s actually forget I mentioned that.
Is this why I dislike poetry readings so
often? Granted, they are most often,
at least the rare events I actually at-
tend these days, social events. And,
let’s just face it, poets are the
most socially awkward groups that I
have encountered on this planet. Math
squadrons, perhaps? Chemistry nerds?
I suppose there are a lot of anti-social
folks out there trying their best, I should
not let myself get to carried away here.
But let’s just say that you happen to be one
of us: a member of the poetry team. Or that
extra-rare lover of a non-poet who regularly
hangs out with our team. And, let’s say you
have a favorite poem by—let’s make this perfectly
easy to grasp—a personal favorite living poet. And
you get all ready one evening or weekend after-
noon to attend the reading of this hero of yours,
and right off the bat the hero poet begins to read
your absolutely favorite piece (by any living author)
in the most ho-hum, hum-drum manner. Or per-
haps even worse, reads it in that trite way many
poets read their own poems when standing in
front of the few of us who get ourselves togeth-
er just to attend such things. It might be a game-
changer, am I right? My most...modern... example,
or at least one that I am comfortable enough to re-
lay, is contrasting a performance or a studio re-
lease by Kanye West to the daily ding-bat non-
sense that erupts from the same mouth from
which that musical/rap sublimity apparently
emits. It leaves me confounded; dumbfounded;
worrying about his sanity and if whoever raised
him is actually bearing witness to this (if so, the
poor dear!)|With him, I can usually ignore the non-
stop barrage of crap given the fact that I can listen
to the albums in my own home. But this is a con-
undrum I ponder quite often (too often, I am
sure most would say). Or, sometimes—and
this too, I know, seems quite debatable—but
what about the similar phenomenon that can
occur in the same general neighborhood as
heroes who have penned some of the greatest
novels or poetry or emitted some of the best
rap or vocal bravura or performed some of
the greatest on-screen or off-screen perfor-
mances to date. Be it my opinion or yours
in such cases, surely it gives one pause.
But mostly it makes me want to jump out
of my seat and drag the reader off the stage
(or at least away from any podium or micro-
phone), pick up that which, now in mass-
produced print, was once penned by this
dodo, and read the damned thing myself.
The way it was actually meant to be read,
of course.
Monday, July 29, 2019
mmdccclxxxviii
My ass is not an accessorary (What?)
Yeah, I said, accessorary...
—from Tempo, performed by Lizzo and Missy Elliott
Wouldn’t it be nice to have no rules?
To do whatever you want with language?
Well, folks, I say call yourself a poet (as
I do) and freedom is yours! You, too, can
relish in freedom every time you put pen
to paper. Today, for me, it is purple neon,
and that is for real, too. But yours can be
any color or just about any medium your
heart desires. Even virtual, kids. So
kudos to Lizzo and to the Queen.
As I’ve said before, and many
a time, rap is where it’s at (poetry,
freedom and imagination that is), and
as one who fancies himself a rapper
on paper (as opposed, I suppose, as
a wrapper of paper), each day these
days (and especially these days) I
understand anew what freedom
means to me, and might even
mean to you, be it presently or in
some soon or distant future. I used
to say that I was only the reporter,
that I only presented the news, but
now I prefer to say (or believe)
that I offer an alternative, if for
no other reason than the fact
that the daily bombardment of
events transpiring in this world
often come at us as if in search
of a coronary implosion. So,
as for the matter of breaking
a few rules, whether they be
literary or literal, it does supply
an alternative of some sort to
this kind of 21st century flipping
through the channels around
(only not just at eight in the morn-
ing and six and ten in the evening
and night), among the trio of fam-
iliar (and even familial) news-
heads. No, in truth, this act
is one that gives me a great
amount of joy and at least a
nice enough recuperation from
the normally incessant bar-
rage of baloney that we are
fed at all hours of the day
and night. Alas, reality,
however, is always here.
I like to think I am an
honest guy (perhaps
overly so); and in
any case I am fairly
straight up and try
my best to be overtly
clear. That has been
my rather unflinching
rule of thumb for, well,
years. But, my dears,
to just steer clear for a
smidge of time, to take
a metaphorical (or real)
paintbrush— and, in ess-
ence—make what-
ever creative advantage
you can concoct over that
what is. So that it may rule
for just a moment over
whatever happens to be
the often dreary actual
and factual events trans-
piring near and far that
might be causing at
least a headache if not
nausea and uncontrol-
lable spasms of deep
muscles, etc. I say
attempt to bring your-
self up by knocking
that down and, instead,
create something
of (and on) your own.
It very well may not
only bring you just a bit
of help, at least with-
stand a dozen or so en-
suing actual and factual
calamities. Not that I
am suggesting that we
all go off the deep end
together. After all, I
am only here to report,
and that is what I shall
continue to do until I
succumb to the battle
of truth’s bitter pill.
No need to quote me on
that. It is just a suggestion.
Now, do carry on, and thank
you for being my momentary
ambulance and possibly my
unmitigated recuperation.
Yeah, I said, accessorary...
—from Tempo, performed by Lizzo and Missy Elliott
Wouldn’t it be nice to have no rules?
To do whatever you want with language?
Well, folks, I say call yourself a poet (as
I do) and freedom is yours! You, too, can
relish in freedom every time you put pen
to paper. Today, for me, it is purple neon,
and that is for real, too. But yours can be
any color or just about any medium your
heart desires. Even virtual, kids. So
kudos to Lizzo and to the Queen.
As I’ve said before, and many
a time, rap is where it’s at (poetry,
freedom and imagination that is), and
as one who fancies himself a rapper
on paper (as opposed, I suppose, as
a wrapper of paper), each day these
days (and especially these days) I
understand anew what freedom
means to me, and might even
mean to you, be it presently or in
some soon or distant future. I used
to say that I was only the reporter,
that I only presented the news, but
now I prefer to say (or believe)
that I offer an alternative, if for
no other reason than the fact
that the daily bombardment of
events transpiring in this world
often come at us as if in search
of a coronary implosion. So,
as for the matter of breaking
a few rules, whether they be
literary or literal, it does supply
an alternative of some sort to
this kind of 21st century flipping
through the channels around
(only not just at eight in the morn-
ing and six and ten in the evening
and night), among the trio of fam-
iliar (and even familial) news-
heads. No, in truth, this act
is one that gives me a great
amount of joy and at least a
nice enough recuperation from
the normally incessant bar-
rage of baloney that we are
fed at all hours of the day
and night. Alas, reality,
however, is always here.
I like to think I am an
honest guy (perhaps
overly so); and in
any case I am fairly
straight up and try
my best to be overtly
clear. That has been
my rather unflinching
rule of thumb for, well,
years. But, my dears,
to just steer clear for a
smidge of time, to take
a metaphorical (or real)
paintbrush— and, in ess-
ence—make what-
ever creative advantage
you can concoct over that
what is. So that it may rule
for just a moment over
whatever happens to be
the often dreary actual
and factual events trans-
piring near and far that
might be causing at
least a headache if not
nausea and uncontrol-
lable spasms of deep
muscles, etc. I say
attempt to bring your-
self up by knocking
that down and, instead,
create something
of (and on) your own.
It very well may not
only bring you just a bit
of help, at least with-
stand a dozen or so en-
suing actual and factual
calamities. Not that I
am suggesting that we
all go off the deep end
together. After all, I
am only here to report,
and that is what I shall
continue to do until I
succumb to the battle
of truth’s bitter pill.
No need to quote me on
that. It is just a suggestion.
Now, do carry on, and thank
you for being my momentary
ambulance and possibly my
unmitigated recuperation.
Sunday, July 28, 2019
mmdccclxxxvii
And you are old and deep and cold and like a cheap hotel
of sleep corridors and whisperings.
—Jack Spicer
I’m not feeling so tawdry
tonight but I would love a date
with the Pacific. A date with an
ocean seems suddenly and
terribly desperate, but I suppose
it could fairly easily be surmised
that I am. Desperate. But yet
I don’t think I am. Usually
anyway. I really would love to
date. Am ready to. Maybe I even
have something in the works. But
reading a blurb that pops up in my
phone just now, “Just when you
think Trump can’t sink any lower,”, says
the phone, so to speak, “he does.” And of
course he does. So I begin to wonder why even
to bother with this love thing. “It’s aready
a recipe for disaster,” I say to my phone? To
myself? In the end it’s all just a
realy dumb conundrum, anyway. Right?
But...but...if there ever was a time when one (I)
needed someone to grab by both hands, pull
him toward me, look directly into his eyes and
scream “THIS. CANNOT. BE. HAPPENING!!??”
...well, that time would surely be now. What a
time to remain in what has surely become,
by now, mostly just a self-imposed bubble,
my box, my little room in the city. Isn’t that
what love is, after all? Of course it is. Per-
haps among a multitude of other things. And
now these mullings have me missing it. The
comfort. The comfort a cat cannot give, for
example, or just to discern. I mean, you can
yell at an animal for days until it gets all silly
cross-eyed at you, but still who does it come
to for food. Nevertheless, this would have
to be torture for a cat. What would she care
what my phone is telling me about this guy,
this president, and this unbelievably lower
he can go. But to another human, with the
electricity moving between the palms of
each of your hands into the palms of each
of the others’ and vice versa, as that rare
and seemingly inappropriate scream gets
shouted directly into the other’s face.
Until. The relief. That someone understands.
And can let it go in that fundamental, if not
primal, way. Sure, the face being screamed
at flinches at first, afraid that maybe you are
angry at something he or she has done.
But how short a time must it take to feel
his or her own burden lifted; a load that
makes one feel free again, perhaps as
momentarily free as the screamer feels?
This, after such a jolt to the system. To
the systems of each of us, which now
get to feel momentarily repaired, as if
we have each experienced a catharsis.
In the Greek sense. A purge. A spew.
A vomit. And all better now, we can go
on and live another day with our mod-
icum of happiness. That empathy.
That connection. That intimacy.
That comfortability. That relief.
The laughter. The cursing. The
absolute understanding between
two human beings. That “I totally
get you.” Now that’s love.
I think that the wishy-washy feeling that
I have had about whether I want it, know-
ing full well that I do, is no longer the
least bit wishy-washy. I truly want it.
of sleep corridors and whisperings.
—Jack Spicer
I’m not feeling so tawdry
tonight but I would love a date
with the Pacific. A date with an
ocean seems suddenly and
terribly desperate, but I suppose
it could fairly easily be surmised
that I am. Desperate. But yet
I don’t think I am. Usually
anyway. I really would love to
date. Am ready to. Maybe I even
have something in the works. But
reading a blurb that pops up in my
phone just now, “Just when you
think Trump can’t sink any lower,”, says
the phone, so to speak, “he does.” And of
course he does. So I begin to wonder why even
to bother with this love thing. “It’s aready
a recipe for disaster,” I say to my phone? To
myself? In the end it’s all just a
realy dumb conundrum, anyway. Right?
But...but...if there ever was a time when one (I)
needed someone to grab by both hands, pull
him toward me, look directly into his eyes and
scream “THIS. CANNOT. BE. HAPPENING!!??”
...well, that time would surely be now. What a
time to remain in what has surely become,
by now, mostly just a self-imposed bubble,
my box, my little room in the city. Isn’t that
what love is, after all? Of course it is. Per-
haps among a multitude of other things. And
now these mullings have me missing it. The
comfort. The comfort a cat cannot give, for
example, or just to discern. I mean, you can
yell at an animal for days until it gets all silly
cross-eyed at you, but still who does it come
to for food. Nevertheless, this would have
to be torture for a cat. What would she care
what my phone is telling me about this guy,
this president, and this unbelievably lower
he can go. But to another human, with the
electricity moving between the palms of
each of your hands into the palms of each
of the others’ and vice versa, as that rare
and seemingly inappropriate scream gets
shouted directly into the other’s face.
Until. The relief. That someone understands.
And can let it go in that fundamental, if not
primal, way. Sure, the face being screamed
at flinches at first, afraid that maybe you are
angry at something he or she has done.
But how short a time must it take to feel
his or her own burden lifted; a load that
makes one feel free again, perhaps as
momentarily free as the screamer feels?
This, after such a jolt to the system. To
the systems of each of us, which now
get to feel momentarily repaired, as if
we have each experienced a catharsis.
In the Greek sense. A purge. A spew.
A vomit. And all better now, we can go
on and live another day with our mod-
icum of happiness. That empathy.
That connection. That intimacy.
That comfortability. That relief.
The laughter. The cursing. The
absolute understanding between
two human beings. That “I totally
get you.” Now that’s love.
I think that the wishy-washy feeling that
I have had about whether I want it, know-
ing full well that I do, is no longer the
least bit wishy-washy. I truly want it.
Saturday, July 27, 2019
mmdccclxxxvi
Deep in the mind there is an ocean and below...
—Jack Spicer
Take me out of context
and I begin to make sense.
Is why I am the puzzle
piece that never fits; got
in the wrong box somehow.
My arms and legs are pretty
banged up, thanks to this
fact. And, oh! My head!
I feel like a film depicting
an extraordinarily isolated
character. At least I have
found that there are many
such movies. They keep
me company sometimes.
But normally I write a new
novel every day. And an
entire book of poetry. I
apply for every job in the
city with open positions
which are commensurate
with the experiences I
made before I became
affixed to the occasional
silver screen (I do get to
talk to the audience on
occasion...when there is
one). Nobody calls me
for an interview, of course.
I wouldn’t exactly go
so far as to say that I
swim my life in a paint-
ing by Van Gogh. Be-
cause Van Gogh isn’t
here. I do, however, have
many photographs through
which I often pilfer. And ev-
en though this can only
be done digitally, some-
times, somehow, a
little bit of the color
from whatever era
the photos I’m skim-
ing through seem to
leak like a lost rain-
bow into my very soul.
—Jack Spicer
Take me out of context
and I begin to make sense.
Is why I am the puzzle
piece that never fits; got
in the wrong box somehow.
My arms and legs are pretty
banged up, thanks to this
fact. And, oh! My head!
I feel like a film depicting
an extraordinarily isolated
character. At least I have
found that there are many
such movies. They keep
me company sometimes.
But normally I write a new
novel every day. And an
entire book of poetry. I
apply for every job in the
city with open positions
which are commensurate
with the experiences I
made before I became
affixed to the occasional
silver screen (I do get to
talk to the audience on
occasion...when there is
one). Nobody calls me
for an interview, of course.
I wouldn’t exactly go
so far as to say that I
swim my life in a paint-
ing by Van Gogh. Be-
cause Van Gogh isn’t
here. I do, however, have
many photographs through
which I often pilfer. And ev-
en though this can only
be done digitally, some-
times, somehow, a
little bit of the color
from whatever era
the photos I’m skim-
ing through seem to
leak like a lost rain-
bow into my very soul.
Friday, July 26, 2019
mmdccclxxxv
Moon Face
You light up my life.
You look down on me,
breathe through my body
as if I were wounded. Which,
of course I am. I know
You light up my life.
You look down on me,
breathe through my body
as if I were wounded. Which,
of course I am. I know
this. Your breath is the
distinction between incar-
nation and condescension.
I have always appreciated
an inflamed desire, for
better or worse. Semi-
inflamed, I know is bet-
ter than worse, but I’ll
take it as hot as it gets,
with apologies to my
environment and those
in it (I am particularly ap-
ologetic to the objects of
such intense yearning).
Yes, it is better if it does
not throb so intensely,
bang so loudly, that it
drowns out my life (and
the lives of others). Moon
Face. You know me like
no other. The biggest my-
stery of you, ironically, is
that everyone knows you.
Intimately, in most cases,
right? Or believes they do.
I close my eyes and hear
Bowie making “ground
control” pretty floaty. It’s
a nice sensation. It goes
quite well with your breath in
my hair. And while that arouses
my senses, so to speak, I al-
ways have such trouble with
nostalgia. More to the point,
with other peoples’ perception
of my nostalgia. Because, in
all honesty, I’m not terribly
nostalgic when it comes
down to it. But many of
my obsessions or actions
have me looking backward
in time. But it is not out of
a desire to go back. Never.
It is a way to gauge where I
am, and whether that is where
I want to be. And if not, this
reflection helps me to alter
my course to a more approp-
riate direction. It all boils down
to hedonism, even the desire
to make the world a better place
than when I arrived in it; in my
belief, that is even possible. I
think of it as humanitarian
Darwinian evolution. We
are humans, after all. Pur-
portedly the most capable
of this planet’s animals. So
when I look back and study
last year. Two years ago.
A decade ago. Mulling over
pictures and diary entries and,
well, the few boxes of memora-
bilia that I used to possess,
I am literally examining my
present self in that light, and
trying to discern whether I’m
going in the right direction
(my assessment is, fortunately,
most often a resounding ‘yes’
to that, by the way, even through
the turmoil of the past few years).
But I do look back. Like at skipping
my 12th grade Novel Class in
high school, on many an occasion,
to drink sangria with Martha and
her mother next to her swimming
pool. While watching the latest episode
of Days of Our Lives, I might add. The
television would already be wheeled
out and in place by the time we arrived.
It was a thing. As often as this took
place, however, I remember getting
the award for best grade in that
class. I remember that we read
The Great Gatsby, Animal Farm
I have always appreciated
an inflamed desire, for
better or worse. Semi-
inflamed, I know is bet-
ter than worse, but I’ll
take it as hot as it gets,
with apologies to my
environment and those
in it (I am particularly ap-
ologetic to the objects of
such intense yearning).
Yes, it is better if it does
not throb so intensely,
bang so loudly, that it
drowns out my life (and
the lives of others). Moon
Face. You know me like
no other. The biggest my-
stery of you, ironically, is
that everyone knows you.
Intimately, in most cases,
right? Or believes they do.
I close my eyes and hear
Bowie making “ground
control” pretty floaty. It’s
a nice sensation. It goes
quite well with your breath in
my hair. And while that arouses
my senses, so to speak, I al-
ways have such trouble with
nostalgia. More to the point,
with other peoples’ perception
of my nostalgia. Because, in
all honesty, I’m not terribly
nostalgic when it comes
down to it. But many of
my obsessions or actions
have me looking backward
in time. But it is not out of
a desire to go back. Never.
It is a way to gauge where I
am, and whether that is where
I want to be. And if not, this
reflection helps me to alter
my course to a more approp-
riate direction. It all boils down
to hedonism, even the desire
to make the world a better place
than when I arrived in it; in my
belief, that is even possible. I
think of it as humanitarian
Darwinian evolution. We
are humans, after all. Pur-
portedly the most capable
of this planet’s animals. So
when I look back and study
last year. Two years ago.
A decade ago. Mulling over
pictures and diary entries and,
well, the few boxes of memora-
bilia that I used to possess,
I am literally examining my
present self in that light, and
trying to discern whether I’m
going in the right direction
(my assessment is, fortunately,
most often a resounding ‘yes’
to that, by the way, even through
the turmoil of the past few years).
But I do look back. Like at skipping
my 12th grade Novel Class in
high school, on many an occasion,
to drink sangria with Martha and
her mother next to her swimming
pool. While watching the latest episode
of Days of Our Lives, I might add. The
television would already be wheeled
out and in place by the time we arrived.
It was a thing. As often as this took
place, however, I remember getting
the award for best grade in that
class. I remember that we read
The Great Gatsby, Animal Farm
and A Brave New World (or
maybe it was 1984, since it
was, actually, 1984 at the time).
Whichever Orwell book it was,
what a prescient trio to read
in retrospect (see how this
works sometimes?). And
me all of sixteen years old
at the time, so ready to run
away from home to join the
circus that was college (this
is an understatement, both
the desire to run away from
home [forever!] and the com-
parison of my wonderful little
liberal arts enclave to a circus).
Before I know it, as these
thoughts swing through the
breeze and through me, and
by the time I remember that
it was just me and Moon Face
only moments ago, wouldn’t
you know it but the moon has all
but disappeared. The next morn-
ing I call Mom, for no reason but
to say hello. She, who lives
nearly 2,000 miles from the
spot I now call home, has to
inform me before I can say
anything at all that she had
a little talk with Moon Face her-
self last night. I could hear
the spark in her voice as she
mentioned it, so without say-
ing a word about the subject
of her conversation, I knew
it must have been special.
Now, ordinarily, I would get
a bit jealous (at least a bit)
of such a blatant disconnect
between me and my favorite
light o’ night friend (paramour,
was, actually, 1984 at the time).
Whichever Orwell book it was,
what a prescient trio to read
in retrospect (see how this
works sometimes?). And
me all of sixteen years old
at the time, so ready to run
away from home to join the
circus that was college (this
is an understatement, both
the desire to run away from
home [forever!] and the com-
parison of my wonderful little
liberal arts enclave to a circus).
Before I know it, as these
thoughts swing through the
breeze and through me, and
by the time I remember that
it was just me and Moon Face
only moments ago, wouldn’t
you know it but the moon has all
but disappeared. The next morn-
ing I call Mom, for no reason but
to say hello. She, who lives
nearly 2,000 miles from the
spot I now call home, has to
inform me before I can say
anything at all that she had
a little talk with Moon Face her-
self last night. I could hear
the spark in her voice as she
mentioned it, so without say-
ing a word about the subject
of her conversation, I knew
it must have been special.
Now, ordinarily, I would get
a bit jealous (at least a bit)
of such a blatant disconnect
between me and my favorite
light o’ night friend (paramour,
I would like to say, actually),
particularly if the attention
given me was diverted by
the likes of my own kith
and kin. But I simply
smiled this time, remem-
bering the walk back home
after being ignored the
night before (or lost in
thought). Or, I guess
you could just as easily
say that I was walking
away from home. It
just depends on which
way you think about it.
particularly if the attention
given me was diverted by
the likes of my own kith
and kin. But I simply
smiled this time, remem-
bering the walk back home
after being ignored the
night before (or lost in
thought). Or, I guess
you could just as easily
say that I was walking
away from home. It
just depends on which
way you think about it.
Thursday, July 25, 2019
mmdccclxxxiv
Mouth Love
Can we not hold it against ourselves
when we hold ourselves against others?
The other may be rather fond of such
mouth love, just as we are. Sure, some-
times it smarts to chip a couple of teeth,
or have one broken in half. It hurts espec-
ially to have one shoved, wholly, halfway
down one’s throat. And no laughing
gas around. Trust me. I’ve been there.
We’ve all been there, am I right?
Anyway. Unrelatedly, I went to some-
tiing called Laugh Therapy a few weeks
ago with Cassandra. First of all, Polk
Gulch is no laughing matter. Take my
word for it and do not mention to anyone,
especially someone intent on laughing
for an hour or two (I still wish I knew how
this actually works, but color me a skep-
tic) that they’re in the Gulch. It's no
laughing matter, let me tell you. And if you
happen to be at the home of someone who
resides there? Ask what it’s like being up the
Gulch these days (or query with What’s it
like to walk to the corner store for a
cigarette at two in the morning? or Have
you met any nice neighbors yet? In my
defense, I had no idea it had already been
a decade this poor lady had survived in
such a nightmare of a slum). To each
each his own, I say But, man, home is
where the heart is. And home is a mighty
strong word for anyplace in the Gulch.
I say this just in case you are not person-
ally aware of this. God’s word from me to
you. Just mark my words. See [he chuck-
les], I have a terrific sense of humor!
But do you know what they told me at
this...this Laugh Therapy session that
Cassandra dragged me to? After about
five minutes, no less, it was two words:
"Get out!" Not that I hesitated in the least,
but they did add a few more as I was picking
up my belongings and walking out the
door. They said....they proclaimed...
that this was AB SO LUTELY NO
place for SARcasm! The nerve!
There weren’t even any placards
warning anyone what a serious thing
this laughter is, not even anything on the
big blow-up beach balls or the purple ball-
oons; no "TAKE YOUR SARCASM &
SHOVE IT. No nothin’! And yet, I
found myself laughing hysterically — ya
know? That god-awful terrifying laugh
of mine, when it does show up, it shakes
me to the core. Yet it was even more real,
this laughter, if ou can imagine. Such a relief
from that humorless lack of hospitability.
Sourpusses, each and every one of them.
But there’s me, laughing for two, maybe
three entire blocks straight, directly away
from the farcical home of Laugh Therapy.
What a riot! I haven’t even spoken to
Cassandra since, the poor gal. And,
what’s worse is now I’m a bit bitter
over the incident (and bitter does
rhyme with titter, does it not? That
just got ya, ehh?). I believe that
under the direst of circumstances
that I have not only held on to my
humor, but I would say I have a
keener sense of the joy of sheer
laughter than anyone you might
think to match me up against.
And go ahead, I dare ya. Just
you try to look at the choices,
and as competitively as you can.
I would win, hands down. I
mean, come on, look what
I’m wearing, for Pete’s sake.
And, like I mentioned, Pete’s
not even here. Take my hair, for
example. How does this mess not
bring you to tears? And just have a
gander at the eclectic set of knick-knacks
I’ve collected over the years—that
now live right here on my living room shelf;
the guffaws they’ve elicited. And there
are, as always, the dozen or so thumb-
tacks I keep head down on the ottoman.
Granted, I used to have a lot more comp-
any than I do these days, but that was
worth a gold mine every single time
some poor sot went for it. I mean, who
sits on an ottoman anyway for Pete’s sake?
And, he’s not even...well, you get
my point, I am sure. [He says as he elbows
his pal in the ribs.] I just dare you to tell me
that I’m the only one left laughing on this
here planet. In fact, I double-dog dare you.
Can we not hold it against ourselves
when we hold ourselves against others?
The other may be rather fond of such
mouth love, just as we are. Sure, some-
times it smarts to chip a couple of teeth,
or have one broken in half. It hurts espec-
ially to have one shoved, wholly, halfway
down one’s throat. And no laughing
gas around. Trust me. I’ve been there.
We’ve all been there, am I right?
Anyway. Unrelatedly, I went to some-
tiing called Laugh Therapy a few weeks
ago with Cassandra. First of all, Polk
Gulch is no laughing matter. Take my
word for it and do not mention to anyone,
especially someone intent on laughing
for an hour or two (I still wish I knew how
this actually works, but color me a skep-
tic) that they’re in the Gulch. It's no
laughing matter, let me tell you. And if you
happen to be at the home of someone who
resides there? Ask what it’s like being up the
Gulch these days (or query with What’s it
like to walk to the corner store for a
cigarette at two in the morning? or Have
you met any nice neighbors yet? In my
defense, I had no idea it had already been
a decade this poor lady had survived in
such a nightmare of a slum). To each
each his own, I say But, man, home is
where the heart is. And home is a mighty
strong word for anyplace in the Gulch.
I say this just in case you are not person-
ally aware of this. God’s word from me to
you. Just mark my words. See [he chuck-
les], I have a terrific sense of humor!
But do you know what they told me at
this...this Laugh Therapy session that
Cassandra dragged me to? After about
five minutes, no less, it was two words:
"Get out!" Not that I hesitated in the least,
but they did add a few more as I was picking
up my belongings and walking out the
door. They said....they proclaimed...
that this was AB SO LUTELY NO
place for SARcasm! The nerve!
There weren’t even any placards
warning anyone what a serious thing
this laughter is, not even anything on the
big blow-up beach balls or the purple ball-
oons; no "TAKE YOUR SARCASM &
SHOVE IT. No nothin’! And yet, I
found myself laughing hysterically — ya
know? That god-awful terrifying laugh
of mine, when it does show up, it shakes
me to the core. Yet it was even more real,
this laughter, if ou can imagine. Such a relief
from that humorless lack of hospitability.
Sourpusses, each and every one of them.
But there’s me, laughing for two, maybe
three entire blocks straight, directly away
from the farcical home of Laugh Therapy.
What a riot! I haven’t even spoken to
Cassandra since, the poor gal. And,
what’s worse is now I’m a bit bitter
over the incident (and bitter does
rhyme with titter, does it not? That
just got ya, ehh?). I believe that
under the direst of circumstances
that I have not only held on to my
humor, but I would say I have a
keener sense of the joy of sheer
laughter than anyone you might
think to match me up against.
And go ahead, I dare ya. Just
you try to look at the choices,
and as competitively as you can.
I would win, hands down. I
mean, come on, look what
I’m wearing, for Pete’s sake.
And, like I mentioned, Pete’s
not even here. Take my hair, for
example. How does this mess not
bring you to tears? And just have a
gander at the eclectic set of knick-knacks
I’ve collected over the years—that
now live right here on my living room shelf;
the guffaws they’ve elicited. And there
are, as always, the dozen or so thumb-
tacks I keep head down on the ottoman.
Granted, I used to have a lot more comp-
any than I do these days, but that was
worth a gold mine every single time
some poor sot went for it. I mean, who
sits on an ottoman anyway for Pete’s sake?
And, he’s not even...well, you get
my point, I am sure. [He says as he elbows
his pal in the ribs.] I just dare you to tell me
that I’m the only one left laughing on this
here planet. In fact, I double-dog dare you.
Wednesday, July 24, 2019
mmdccclxxxiv
Then I realized that I had fallen asleep...
to escape, to stall, because I was
downright exhausted. Ask me again
about the waterbed. About how our
bodies each were walls quite longer
than you would expect. If one were to
to escape, to stall, because I was
downright exhausted. Ask me again
about the waterbed. About how our
bodies each were walls quite longer
than you would expect. If one were to
expect. The boneless mass, the mass-
ive mess. Ask me again. I might say
the same thing I always say: heading
home, after my first graveyard shift
at the cardboard factory. Large
squares of cardboard are heavy.
Little known fact: after the crash,
all four get out of the other car
and take their turns running to-
wards mine, cursing. We were in
front of the courthouse in Van
Buren (is there a courthouse
in Van Buren?). One had a
bloody head. Another had a
bloody arm. This was around
four in the morning. I lock
my doors, stay in the car,
which, surprisingly is still
upright upon its four feet,
not skewed in some kind
of awkward, twisted angle.
Well, I was facing the
opposite direction, as if
going back to work at the
factory where the squares
of cardboard outweighed the
logs that I would bring inside
to my grandfather’s place.
This heat was unnecessary,
however. Everyone was
hollering. The words were
not nice, the ones directed
at me, locked in my Cutlass
ive mess. Ask me again. I might say
the same thing I always say: heading
home, after my first graveyard shift
at the cardboard factory. Large
squares of cardboard are heavy.
Little known fact: after the crash,
all four get out of the other car
and take their turns running to-
wards mine, cursing. We were in
front of the courthouse in Van
Buren (is there a courthouse
in Van Buren?). One had a
bloody head. Another had a
bloody arm. This was around
four in the morning. I lock
my doors, stay in the car,
which, surprisingly is still
upright upon its four feet,
not skewed in some kind
of awkward, twisted angle.
Well, I was facing the
opposite direction, as if
going back to work at the
factory where the squares
of cardboard outweighed the
logs that I would bring inside
to my grandfather’s place.
This heat was unnecessary,
however. Everyone was
hollering. The words were
not nice, the ones directed
at me, locked in my Cutlass
Supreme. I tried to ask if all
were okay, but it just came
out a whimper. And my doors
were closed. Each door locked.
Steam was forming on the wind-
shield. This was summer in
Arkansas . Perhaps it was my
agitated pulse after the slow
motion of the bang and the
double twist at the comp-
letely hidden intersection
(an embankment, an abund-
antly leafy low oak that over-
whelmed a stop sign, etc.).
This was the stuff of heart-
breaks in these middle-sized
towns (my inexperienced
perspective). Are you
following? Several eons
later, after four pairs of fists
clenched and unclenched
under what was the only
spotlight, a streetlamp
at the intersection that
only a few moments ago
did not exist. Did it, though?
The proof would show
that apparently it did.
And so. Thanks to which,
while no one was seriously
injured, my sheepishly white
Cutlass was totaled. And
history shows that I went on
to finish undergraduate school,
and spent two years of work-
ing in a very non-gentrified
downtown Little Rock, after
which I moved (not to offend
Northwest Ohioans, but)
to the armpit of the nation
for graduate school. And
all of this before I would
possess another car of my
own (which, inevitably, was
repossessed; but that is
another story). So, living
in the two largest cities
of my life, thus far, both
exemplars of what public
transportation is definitely
not, I spent without a vehicle
of my own. But I did it. The
four football players from Alma
went home that summer night.
My ticket was dismissed.
The violence of the night
was nothing humanly
physical, despite the
threats. Except, of course
for that one thud-like crash
as my fender slammed dir-
ectly into the front pass-
enger's door of the mov-
ing sports vehicle, over-
filled with four bulked-out
boys (who were definitely
not on their way back
home from work), after
which my car spun a-
round two and a half
times while I gripped
the steering wheel so
tightly that there were
bruises on my palms
for the following week
(my only physical injuries,
thankfully). I lasted two
more weeks at the card-
board factory. It had al-
ready been a long
summer. The last I
would spend in the
town I lived for my
first 17 years. I went
back to college, back
to dreamland, back
to the fantasy-world
of my sophomore
year; the year I would
first start ‘meeting’ a
guy (the same one
the entire school year),
often at the top of
the outdoor but walled-
in concrete stairwell on
the side of the biology
were okay, but it just came
out a whimper. And my doors
were closed. Each door locked.
Steam was forming on the wind-
shield. This was summer in
Arkansas . Perhaps it was my
agitated pulse after the slow
motion of the bang and the
double twist at the comp-
letely hidden intersection
(an embankment, an abund-
antly leafy low oak that over-
whelmed a stop sign, etc.).
This was the stuff of heart-
breaks in these middle-sized
towns (my inexperienced
perspective). Are you
following? Several eons
later, after four pairs of fists
clenched and unclenched
under what was the only
spotlight, a streetlamp
at the intersection that
only a few moments ago
did not exist. Did it, though?
The proof would show
that apparently it did.
And so. Thanks to which,
while no one was seriously
injured, my sheepishly white
Cutlass was totaled. And
history shows that I went on
to finish undergraduate school,
and spent two years of work-
ing in a very non-gentrified
downtown Little Rock, after
which I moved (not to offend
Northwest Ohioans, but)
to the armpit of the nation
for graduate school. And
all of this before I would
possess another car of my
own (which, inevitably, was
repossessed; but that is
another story). So, living
in the two largest cities
of my life, thus far, both
exemplars of what public
transportation is definitely
not, I spent without a vehicle
of my own. But I did it. The
four football players from Alma
went home that summer night.
My ticket was dismissed.
The violence of the night
was nothing humanly
physical, despite the
threats. Except, of course
for that one thud-like crash
as my fender slammed dir-
ectly into the front pass-
enger's door of the mov-
ing sports vehicle, over-
filled with four bulked-out
boys (who were definitely
not on their way back
home from work), after
which my car spun a-
round two and a half
times while I gripped
the steering wheel so
tightly that there were
bruises on my palms
for the following week
(my only physical injuries,
thankfully). I lasted two
more weeks at the card-
board factory. It had al-
ready been a long
summer. The last I
would spend in the
town I lived for my
first 17 years. I went
back to college, back
to dreamland, back
to the fantasy-world
of my sophomore
year; the year I would
first start ‘meeting’ a
guy (the same one
the entire school year),
often at the top of
the outdoor but walled-
in concrete stairwell on
the side of the biology
building. This happened
on quite a regular
basis, as it turned
out. Usually on week-
ends when both of
our respective room-
mates were out for the
weekend. He had a truck,
too. Which meant, as awk-
ward as it might sometimes
be, our meetings did not
necessarily occur only on
weekends when one of us
were without roomies. And,
now that I think about it, there
were probably about as many
such fun-filled, invigorating week-
ends as there were weekdays.
on quite a regular
basis, as it turned
out. Usually on week-
ends when both of
our respective room-
mates were out for the
weekend. He had a truck,
too. Which meant, as awk-
ward as it might sometimes
be, our meetings did not
necessarily occur only on
weekends when one of us
were without roomies. And,
now that I think about it, there
were probably about as many
such fun-filled, invigorating week-
ends as there were weekdays.
Tuesday, July 23, 2019
mmdccclxxxiii
A Slapstick Autobiography
And narrative in the so-called novel
suggests autobiography. Do not roll
your eyes before you read what I am
saying to you. Before you read the
book, I meant to say. We all play
along but with something of a de-
meaning manner, as if volunteering
at a circus only to realize you are
about to be made to perform with a
quartet of clowns. Sure, it’s enter-
taining, funny even, but it also reads
like it's just a butch schizo writing an
extensive diary. This caught my att-
ention. For one thing, everyone lies.
At least occasionally. We had no idea
where she was going with this, nor
which part of her was uttering it. But
we had to agree it was true. We even
lie to our diaries. Or at least I did. This
I seize upon quietly, feeling a pang of
the practice in conjunction with a
perhaps embarrassing empathy. We
all attempt lifetimes reaching some sort
of maturity. But then there’s the kid
in me. Because of this everybody lies
thing, it can be less and less funny as
an actor performing a role, even if comedy
is the performer’s forte (mostly just slapstick).
Such piquant roles are usually my best, I
hear myself saying out loud, and it is true.
But even our most various roles get more
and more confused about which part one
actually played. Or one remembers a
role and wonders if it was a dark comedic
role, a lead in a musical, an overly-drama-
tized love story, a raucous Shakespearian
comedy (or The Tempest). None of our
gang do any of his tragedies (which means
we probably cry real tears more often).
Be it the role of a tragicomic Chekhovian
uncle or an ingenue that grows so wise
during the duration of a mere three hours
that her only alternative is to slam the door
softly behind her family. Whether such a
climactic moment in a performance (or a
lie) is an I've had it moment or a moral
comeuppance or both, it's the grand lie
of the actor/auteur/artist that wakes up one
still dark morning somewhere, often near their
supposed middle of life, only to wonder
Who the heck am I? While better people
(and if you think my portrayal of these folks
as actors are not just a metaphorical stand-in
for ALL LIARS, then it will likely never be of
any concern to you, anyway; you are a dying
breed. But for those who are following me,
aren't they just the most easily exemplified
and recognized breed of our confusion/
confession, or our waking up to never once
having an idea of who we are again? Or it is
passible that you missed the same point of the
autobiography as written by wildly diverse
characters who lack any consistency and yet
fit somehow into one body. And neatly, I might
add. Surely you’ve noticed. No wonder she
and Perez are like this [crosses fingers]. But stage
directions in a poem that proves that none of us
reading this (and let’s just fantasize that a million
people do overnight, and the vast majority of those
who do read it more than once) get the point? We
are all interchangeable. We’ve become in-
consistent, interchangeable, and we do not recog-
nize the ramifications. That is the minority of you
who have the gumption to even understand or
read more than a line or two of a newspaper
article (much less a poem). This is why I stick
to clowning. As much as possible. There is
something very consistent about a clown, so
long as he never wakes up and wants instead
to become a prosecuting attorney, a computer
code writer or a dermatologist or something.
Let the world be filled with vapid no frills types.
That is what stepping into another's shoes can
do for you. Besides give you blisters. Me, my
shoes are about three sizes too long. Such is
the life of a clown. And I've always got more
than one hanky up my sleeve. I can walk around
town terrorizing folks (both children and adults)
then head to my job at a party and watch those
same kids and those same interchangeable adults
laugh themselves into a foamy mouth or a sore
throat. When I am down, the last thing I want to
do in the morning is put on my clown suit and my
oversized shoes and my big red wig and the squeaky
ball over my nose, but at least I’ve the satisfaction of
comedy (or The Tempest). None of our
gang do any of his tragedies (which means
we probably cry real tears more often).
Be it the role of a tragicomic Chekhovian
uncle or an ingenue that grows so wise
during the duration of a mere three hours
that her only alternative is to slam the door
softly behind her family. Whether such a
climactic moment in a performance (or a
lie) is an I've had it moment or a moral
comeuppance or both, it's the grand lie
of the actor/auteur/artist that wakes up one
still dark morning somewhere, often near their
supposed middle of life, only to wonder
Who the heck am I? While better people
(and if you think my portrayal of these folks
as actors are not just a metaphorical stand-in
for ALL LIARS, then it will likely never be of
any concern to you, anyway; you are a dying
breed. But for those who are following me,
aren't they just the most easily exemplified
and recognized breed of our confusion/
confession, or our waking up to never once
having an idea of who we are again? Or it is
passible that you missed the same point of the
autobiography as written by wildly diverse
characters who lack any consistency and yet
fit somehow into one body. And neatly, I might
add. Surely you’ve noticed. No wonder she
and Perez are like this [crosses fingers]. But stage
directions in a poem that proves that none of us
reading this (and let’s just fantasize that a million
people do overnight, and the vast majority of those
who do read it more than once) get the point? We
are all interchangeable. We’ve become in-
consistent, interchangeable, and we do not recog-
nize the ramifications. That is the minority of you
who have the gumption to even understand or
read more than a line or two of a newspaper
article (much less a poem). This is why I stick
to clowning. As much as possible. There is
something very consistent about a clown, so
long as he never wakes up and wants instead
to become a prosecuting attorney, a computer
code writer or a dermatologist or something.
Let the world be filled with vapid no frills types.
That is what stepping into another's shoes can
do for you. Besides give you blisters. Me, my
shoes are about three sizes too long. Such is
the life of a clown. And I've always got more
than one hanky up my sleeve. I can walk around
town terrorizing folks (both children and adults)
then head to my job at a party and watch those
same kids and those same interchangeable adults
laugh themselves into a foamy mouth or a sore
throat. When I am down, the last thing I want to
do in the morning is put on my clown suit and my
oversized shoes and my big red wig and the squeaky
ball over my nose, but at least I’ve the satisfaction of
knowing two things: 1) Who I am every single day;
and 2) That clowns are the most stable humans in
any business, if not in the entire world. Oh, and
3) Circuses may be full of manure, but they are also
and always the stuff from which dreams are made.
3) Circuses may be full of manure, but they are also
and always the stuff from which dreams are made.
Monday, July 22, 2019
mmdccclxxxii
Eggplant Application
Eggplant, as it relates to
fraud, is a gruesome topic.
Kids on this island go to
SugarDaddy.com for their
lethal dose. Applied
appropriately and it
can stop a cold sore
within 12-18 hours
(this per the label).
And you’ll still
have plenty left for
your vegetarian
lasagna (don’t
even think about miss-
ing Sunday’s pot-
luck!)! Explaining by
exclaiming is so twenty
years ago. My nephews
and nieces keep me in
the loop. Or is it an
echo chamber? I
should know as I am
a geek from way back.
When I strain to explain
how far back, I get the
yawns. Not me, mind
you. I love being a
geek. I mean my
audience. The only
thing that all of these
young pups seem to
appreciate is when I
put up the fourth wall.
Like, permanently. And
(the nieces and nephews
always like to remind)
with cinder blocks.
Only they would’t
know a cinderblock
if it hit one on the head
(and the rest fell like
dominoes). I love
kids. They make me
feel so young. If I had
one tonight, I would
take him out dancing.
I am such a block-
head that I even
have someone in
mind for such a task.
But what if he act-
ually arrived? We
would enjoy a match-
makers delight as we
ditched the night-
clubs to swing to
the music of the
night on the empty
2am streets of
our city of promise
and unity, roiling the
night’s thick fog,
which would other-
wise overwhelm with
its sickly sweet smell
of not-so-distant deadly
blazes, into ephemeral
wisps; dizzy curlicues of
delight as we dance
our way giddily over
every empty street
until dawn. After
which we’d retire to
our little beating heart,
our home, nestled snug-
ly inside of our vertiginous,
kinetic city. The one
that we just made,
with but the two
of us, together.
Eggplant, as it relates to
fraud, is a gruesome topic.
Kids on this island go to
SugarDaddy.com for their
lethal dose. Applied
appropriately and it
can stop a cold sore
within 12-18 hours
(this per the label).
And you’ll still
have plenty left for
your vegetarian
lasagna (don’t
even think about miss-
ing Sunday’s pot-
luck!)! Explaining by
exclaiming is so twenty
years ago. My nephews
and nieces keep me in
the loop. Or is it an
echo chamber? I
should know as I am
a geek from way back.
When I strain to explain
how far back, I get the
yawns. Not me, mind
you. I love being a
geek. I mean my
audience. The only
thing that all of these
young pups seem to
appreciate is when I
put up the fourth wall.
Like, permanently. And
(the nieces and nephews
always like to remind)
with cinder blocks.
Only they would’t
know a cinderblock
if it hit one on the head
(and the rest fell like
dominoes). I love
kids. They make me
feel so young. If I had
one tonight, I would
take him out dancing.
I am such a block-
head that I even
have someone in
mind for such a task.
But what if he act-
ually arrived? We
would enjoy a match-
makers delight as we
ditched the night-
clubs to swing to
the music of the
night on the empty
2am streets of
our city of promise
and unity, roiling the
night’s thick fog,
which would other-
wise overwhelm with
its sickly sweet smell
of not-so-distant deadly
blazes, into ephemeral
wisps; dizzy curlicues of
delight as we dance
our way giddily over
every empty street
until dawn. After
which we’d retire to
our little beating heart,
our home, nestled snug-
ly inside of our vertiginous,
kinetic city. The one
that we just made,
with but the two
of us, together.
Sunday, July 21, 2019
Saturday, July 20, 2019
mmdccclxxx
Explaining “Common Sense” to a Toddler
As hard as it might be to put this in context
without a Xanax, all ‘adults’ are crazy.
I tried it once, and I can put that in context
without medication of any sort. It’s that
true. It is also true—at least every once in a
while—that the fruits of our labors—both
individually and collectively—are undignified.
Every once in a while, is all I’m saying. Futile.
Shall I expose them to proper ettiquette? she
wonders. Wait, let me look it up, he replies. To
which she rolls her eyes, absolutely knowing that
Amy Vanderbilt never envisioned this particular
disaster. He finds the tome, its dust cover all
dusty and torn. The correct way to handle one-
self in the...situation we were just discussing...
happens to be...all of the above. A black lab-
rador hops over the coffee table and onto her
lap, which makes her realize yet again how
often she takes things way too literally. This
tendency, she surmises, is directly tied to class.
Later, I go fishing. It is there that the black lab-
rador finds me, initially startling my chill com-
posure. I imagine that the dog is going to
hop right into the fish pond. As he gets
close enough in his romp toward me
for me to see that he is, yes, he is
foaming at the mouth; and this is
much too late for me to plan a dis-
aster strategy. Or, more approp-
riately, a strategy from which to avoid
the quickly growing potential for disaster.
And disaster strategies are my strong point.
Besides, I had been fishing all afternoon
without a nibble of a minnow. It was then
that I somehow noticed that the red and
white cork attached to my fishing line—
and me still holding the rod awaiting the
lethal clamp of the labrador’s jaws—had
just been swallowed by the darkening pond.
As hard as it might be to put this in context
without a Xanax, all ‘adults’ are crazy.
I tried it once, and I can put that in context
without medication of any sort. It’s that
true. It is also true—at least every once in a
while—that the fruits of our labors—both
individually and collectively—are undignified.
Every once in a while, is all I’m saying. Futile.
Shall I expose them to proper ettiquette? she
wonders. Wait, let me look it up, he replies. To
which she rolls her eyes, absolutely knowing that
Amy Vanderbilt never envisioned this particular
disaster. He finds the tome, its dust cover all
dusty and torn. The correct way to handle one-
self in the...situation we were just discussing...
happens to be...all of the above. A black lab-
rador hops over the coffee table and onto her
lap, which makes her realize yet again how
often she takes things way too literally. This
tendency, she surmises, is directly tied to class.
Later, I go fishing. It is there that the black lab-
rador finds me, initially startling my chill com-
posure. I imagine that the dog is going to
hop right into the fish pond. As he gets
close enough in his romp toward me
for me to see that he is, yes, he is
foaming at the mouth; and this is
much too late for me to plan a dis-
aster strategy. Or, more approp-
riately, a strategy from which to avoid
the quickly growing potential for disaster.
And disaster strategies are my strong point.
Besides, I had been fishing all afternoon
without a nibble of a minnow. It was then
that I somehow noticed that the red and
white cork attached to my fishing line—
and me still holding the rod awaiting the
lethal clamp of the labrador’s jaws—had
just been swallowed by the darkening pond.
Thursday, July 18, 2019
mmdccclxxix
Put Up or Shut Up!
One’s general use of proper
manners can be indicative of
many things, can get you most
anywhere. More than anywhere,
however, is everywhere. And we
all know that one cannot BE all
places at once. That goes for
you, too. I have a headache.
I take Advil today. I don’t know
whether it will do a damned
thing for my headache, but
nevertheless I wait and see.
Does it go on for weeks? In
this climate, sure. Does it
end in half an hour to an hour?
Sure, but can that in any way
be attributed to the Advil?
One’s general use of proper
manners can be indicative of
many things, can get you most
anywhere. More than anywhere,
however, is everywhere. And we
all know that one cannot BE all
places at once. That goes for
you, too. I have a headache.
I take Advil today. I don’t know
whether it will do a damned
thing for my headache, but
nevertheless I wait and see.
Does it go on for weeks? In
this climate, sure. Does it
end in half an hour to an hour?
Sure, but can that in any way
be attributed to the Advil?
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